We had been talking about going to Pleasures for so long that it had almost become a running joke between us. Every few weeks one of us would say, “One day…” and the other would nod like it was some mythical event far in the future. So when we finally sat in the car outside the club, both of us had that quiet, wide-eyed moment of, Oh wow, we’re actually doing this.
Walking in felt surprisingly natural. The hosts greeted us like we were old friends finally showing up to a party we had promised to attend for years. They gave us a tour that eased the butterflies in both our stomachs.
Once we settled with drinks, the atmosphere began to relax us. People were friendly in a genuine, down-to-earth way. No pressure, no intensity, just easy conversations that made us laugh at how nervous we had been. We kept glancing at each other with that “See, this isn’t scary at all” smile.
We spent most of the night slowly exploring the different rooms and spaces, hand in hand, talking quietly about how different the reality was from our imagined scenarios. It was so friendly, and far more welcoming than either of us expected. There was no pressure, just a space full with like minded people who all enjoyed sharing the space.
We had some fun between the two of us, whilst another couple in the same room watched us. Being watched was so horny and very sexy, and something I will always remember. The whole experience felt like an amazing leap into something new and very exciting and it brought out a sexy, excited energy between us that was just the best feeling ever.
We were the last ones to leave, and as we walked back to the car, we were buzzing. Not from anything dramatic but from the simple fact that we had finally done something we had been discussing for years. It felt like opening a door to something amazing and fun and sexy that we could share in together
Our first night at Pleasures was a night we won’t forget. Not because it was wild, but because it was fun fun fun with the best best people. We will be going back a lot!
This blog was written by the female of a couple who visited Pleasures In Kent in November 2025