Pleasures in Kent is set within the peaceful Kent countryside. Surrounded by open fields and woodland, the venue provides a safe, welcoming environment where open-minded adults can relax, connect, and explore with confidence and respect.
Pleasures In Kent was founded in 2005 by Steve and his late wife, Jeanie. Jeanie passed away on 12 January 2021, and her influence continues to guide the club’s ethos and standards. In 2017, Steve and Jeanie welcomed Lorri into their circle, forming a strong professional and personal connection. After Jeanie’s passing, Steve and Lorri continued to develop the club, and in 2025 they married. They now run Pleasures together as a husband-and-wife team.
The venue offers 14 uniquely themed areas, including a dungeon, open play spaces, private rooms, and a dance area for guests who enjoy a lively, social atmosphere. Additional facilities include private parking, a comfortable lounge, and a covered outdoor smoking area. Every space has been created with discretion, comfort, and guests experience in mind.
Pleasures opens every Friday and Saturday night and hosts a full calendar of themed events throughout the year.
Guests are welcome to explore the website for further information. For enquiries or assistance, Steve and Lorri are very happy to help.
Pleasures looks forward to welcoming you.
All guests must be 25 or over.
ID may be requested at the door.
Single men must arrive following the dress code (see below) and MUST phone Steve before attending to register for the Friday evening party. All rules must be followed and anyone who appears intoxicated will be refused entry or asked to leave.
Management reserves the right to refuse entry at their discretion to ensure a safe and respectful environment for all.
We operate a strict dress code. Please arrive in smart or smart-casual attire. Entry may be refused if clothing is unsuitable.
ENTRY WILL BE REFUSED if wearing dirty workwear, shorts, tracksuits, hoodies, ripped clothing. If you arrive in an overall scruffy appearance you will not be permitted entry.
Management reserves the right to refuse entry at their discretion.
Smoking is permitted only in designated areas.
Chewing gum is not allowed anywhere on the premises.
Anyone showing signs of intoxication may be asked to leave immediately.
Illegal drugs are absolutely forbidden.
We do not provide condoms or personal protection items-please bring your own.
Respect all signage and follow management instructions at all times.
Lockers are provided for your personal belongings but used at your own risk. We take no reusability for personal items and belongings you bring into the club.
We are not responsible for your property. Lockers are provided which you use at your own risk. Any lost property is kept for 4 weeks.
Mobile phones and cameras are strictly prohibited.
Your privacy, and the privacy of others, come first.
If you are seen using you mobile phone you will be asked to leave.
Lockers are provided for your personal belongings but used at your own risk. We take no responsibility for personal items and belongings you bring into the club. Any lost property is kept for 4 weeks.
Respect the space, respect every guest, and value everyone’s personal choices.
Always ask before approaching or joining others.
No always means NO.
Consent is essential – never assume anything.
Any form of verbal or physical abuse will result in immediate removal.
Judgment, criticism, or negative comments about others have no place here.
Personal hygiene must be maintained to a high standard.
Be mindful of your language, behaviour, and personal space.
Do not pressure, persuade, or influence anyone’s choices.
Respect privacy – what happens here stays here.
If you feel uncomfortable, speak to the hosts immediately.
This is our private home, so access is not wheelchair friendly.
Keep noise to a minimum when leaving.
Pleasures offers a range of spaces for guests to enjoy throughout the night. These include:
A bar and dance area
A comfortable lounge
14 uniquely themed rooms, including open play spaces, private rooms, and our dungeon area
All play spaces are stocked with bins, paper towels, and anti-bacterial spray. Guests are expected to leave areas clean and ready for the next person to help maintain a respectful and comfortable environment for everyone.
Smoking is permitted only in the designated outdoor smoking area. Anyone found smoking elsewhere will be asked to leave. Please ensure all cigarette ends are placed in the ashtrays provided, not on the floor or decking.
Pleasures does not sell alcohol, but guests are welcome to bring their own. Our team will store it securely and serve it to you throughout the night.
Soft drinks, mixers, and snacks are available to purchase at the bar. We kindly ask that guests do not bring their own non-alcoholic drinks into the venue.
Anyone who appears intoxicated will be asked to leave the venue and may be banned. Safety, awareness, and responsible behaviour are essential for everyone’s enjoyment.
All guests must be 25 or over and may be asked to present valid photographic ID upon entry. This applies to everyone with no exceptions.
Single men must meet all entry requirements and follow all club rules.
Please note: after 11pm, the contribution for single men is £70.