I’m Lorraine Chapman, Steve’s wife, a two-time No. 1 bestselling author, award-winning international speaker, healer, and creator of the IICT-accredited Sexcess System®.
I’m passionate about helping people let go of shame, reconnect with themselves, build confidence, and enjoy healthier, happier relationships, both in and out of the bedroom!
Through my workshops, online programmes, talks, and transformational experiences, I create spaces where people can explore, grow, laugh, and sometimes step well outside their comfort zones!
I also work with businesses through my Building Better Relationships Workshop, helping teams improve communication, understand boundaries, build trust, and tackle those awkward conversations we’d often rather avoid.
And because I believe laughter can open doors that serious conversations sometimes can’t, I also bring sex, relationships, and life’s wonderfully awkward moments to the stage through my stand-up comedy!
From Tantra and somatic work to glass walking, arrow breaking, and comedy, my approach might be a little unconventional, but it’s always about helping people feel more confident, connected, and fully themselves.
Because whether it’s at home, at work, or between the sheets, better relationships change everything!
Click below to find out more about my workshops, programmes, and events, and scroll down to discover my two bestselling books!
A powerful and transformative day celebrating the divine feminine to rebirth their Goddess
This powerful and intimate workshop is devoted to helping women reconnect with their yoni energy, feminine intelligence and inner life force in a safe, professionally held space.
Deepen intimacy, strengthen your bond, and awaken your true selves through transformative Tantra practices.
A powerful, heart-led experience to release fear and unlock your full potential. Optional – Arrow Break and Glass Walk.
Immersive workshop designed to help you understand your energy, release what no longer serves you, and reconnect with yourself.
A beautiful two day journey into the world of tantric massage.
Explore tantra and each other in a safe, held space.
IUnleashed and Liberated: Our Lives, Our Stories brings together twenty one real women sharing their honest experiences of sex, intimacy and pleasure, in their own words, with nothing polished away.
These are not fairy tales. They are real accounts of discovery, confusion, shame, empowerment and growth.
Curated by award-winning author, columnist and speaker Lorraine Chapman, this anthology was born from one simple act: giving women the space to finally tell their story. She had no idea what she would get. What came back was extraordinary.
Some chapters will challenge you. Some will move you. Some may change the way you see yourself.
Because when women read other women’s truth, something shifts. Shame loosens. The quiet question of is it just me? starts to dissolve.
This book is for anyone who is ready, or even just willing, to see things differently.
Contains mature themes. For readers 18 and over.
Also includes Your Chapter – a guided space at the back of this book for you to begin exploring your own story.
A #1 Amazon Best Seller in two categories, July 2026
What if everything you’ve been taught about intimacy, pleasure, and connection was wrong?
In Unleashed and Liberated: My Life, Your Story, Lorraine Crookes takes you on an unapologetically raw journey of self-discovery, empowerment, and sexual liberation. From formative childhood experiences to unlearning deep-rooted cultural and societal taboos, Lorraine’s story is one of courage, heartbreak, and profound transformation.
Through moments of laughter, tears, and unflinching honesty, Lorraine reveals how she reclaimed her sexual energy, dismantled deeply ingrained shame, and rewrote her narrative to live boldly and authentically. This book is more than a personal story—it’s a powerful invitation to reconnect with your desires, challenge outdated beliefs, and fully embrace your own orgasmic life.
Whether by unearthing childhood imprints, confronting the stigma of intimacy, or celebrating newfound passions, Lorraine’s story resonates as a call for freedom, self-love, and the joy of living unapologetically as your true self.
Dare to join her?
